what woman should know about men?

i read these on the internet while googling. 

what we (woman) should know about men?

i am not an expert to these. 

i barely know them although i have a lot of male friends.

after reading, i think i should share.

so, mari baca ramai-ramai.

keke

1. men doesn't care how you look naked. 

nah, see. men doesn't care if you have double cheese burger on your stomach AKA buruyut in dusun! 

a lot of girls (termasuk la saya) tried so damn hard to have a perfect body so that men would attracted to them. well from what i read just now, if any men left alone in a room with any naked woman, it's aready like heaven to them! tidak nampak suda tu buruyut.. kakakaka.... DASAR!

ok, tidak payah mau diet lepas ni. kasi biar ja gemuk! haha

2. men loves staring at hot chick! 

you might find men staring at a beautiful hot girl who's bending low to adjust her sandals.

ok first, the fact that girls also love watching hot guy but not obviously like men.

mata dorang bulat bersinar-sinar tanpa berkelip! 

not even a blink! 

tambah-tambah lagi kalau the hot chick tu ada lurah dendam, bah, tidak tertutup sudah tu mulut arr.

so, girlfriend yang memahami boleh la sedia-sedia baldi bikin tadah tu liur.

but from what i read, we(woman) shouldn't get annoyed by this involuntary action of men. i believe they also feel bad about it (feel bad la sangat. haha). 

even though we can see the happiness in their face, but then again it's an involuntary happiness. 

we should just let it be unless they started to get the hot chick phone number then you should do something with him.

3.men love porn! 

i know this since high-school. 

if a men hate porn then something is wrong with him. 

i don't have to explain more, go and ask them yourself. 

4. men like independent but yet dependent girls.

as much as men want to protect their girls, men also want girls to be independent! 

don't be too clingy girls. 

kalau setakat mau pigi bayar kereta tu, you can handle it.

come on girls. jangan terlampau bergantung pada lelaki. 

men feel more comfortable knowing that their girls can take care of themself well.

but still need him to depends on sometimes.

ok fine, kalau setakat beli baju sejuk tu sendiri-sendiri pun tidak apa bah. 

5. men like it when his girls can show her true self infront of him

meaning don't be fake infront of him.

kalau mau kentut tu jangan malau-malu, kentut ja. 

kalau memang tidur berdengkur, kasitau ja.

let men know that we(women) are also a human. 

as much as he want us to be perfect in-front of other, it's still a relieve knowing that his girls also have this ugly side that only he knows.

la mangkali.

6. men wants a girl who have life.

don't ditch your friend or family for your boyfriend. 

well, of course you go dating and all with your boyfriend but men also love to know that you have life with your girls other than with him alone.

7. men need their space. 

what i read is that women get bored spending their time alone now and then. and i find it true. 

as for myself i hate it when i went home and i find myself alone. no one at home. 

but men need it.

women want to talk to her men like everyday but men need a space.

so, if they ask you not to call them and let them call you instead, that's mean your call makes them irritated!!

careful girls.. 

sedih kan. we(women) just want to talk to them pun irritated for men. 

lagi, saya terbaca yang lelaki boleh bertahan selama berminggu-minggu tidak bercakap dengan girlfriend dorang. 

what?? berminggu-minggu? consider couple lagi ka tu kalau gitu?

no comment. 

men need space kan. 

okaylah, that's all. ada banyak lagi sebenarnya but then, if i put it all here,took me two days to type it. 

so, just google it girls.. you'll find it more there. 

for boyfriend out there.

yeah, maybe you feel like your girlfriend cannot understand you.

what you want and all.

you get irritated if they keep asking you how fat they are.

you find yourself watching beautiful girls,and your girlfriend gets upset.

you love porn and you girlfriend get angry.

you want them not to be so dependent to you only.

you want them to also spend their life to their friends and not only to you.

you want your space. to be alone.

but before all above,have you ever think of what women want? 

what they love?

why women want to be so perfect?

why women want to spend more time with you?

and why women gets upset a lot?

relationship works when both part are trying to understand each other. 

not by the other side only. 

i am not a pro in a relation.

but i always had a hard time when i am the only one who try to understand.

that's why i know and i know you know it too. 

if you want other to understand you, you need to understand them first!

:)

p/s

why women want to have perfect body?

because men eyes can't stop staring at the perfect hot chicks body!

XOXO,

l i l i e