beautifully imperfect.

my father is the most stubborn guy I've ever seen. 

he always want us to behave according to his will.

once we disobey he can be a monster! 

okay monster is too much. 

once we disobey he can be THE HULK! 

lariiiiiii!!!

when i was 5 the most scarier person for me is my father. 

my father has the big RATTAN that he hung on the wall to remind us not to do something bad.

once we make mistake he would take the rattan and hit us.

uh, that was painful.

but as i grow up, my father didn't use rattan to us any longer.

i remember i quarrel with him when i was 15. 

see, i am as stubborn as he is.

ke mana tumpahnya kuah kan? hehe..

both side are so stubborn and it continued like that for a month.

can you imagine, i didn't talk to my father for a month!

i don't remember how we finally ended the world war,

but i remember my mother was the most worried person about the fight.

she said, it's hard to persuade both of us to talk first since both of us are equally stubborn.

keras kepala+keras kepala= macam ni lah. 

when i was 17, i got another fight with my father.

he was so angry with me until he broke my brother's game-toy.

my father has a very bad tempered. 

but i got lucky since my father never hit me after i enter high school.

he never hit a person when he was angry actually but everything beside him always became the victim of his tempered.

coincidentally, that day my little brother's game-toy was beside him and you know the rest of the story.

but the good thing is the next morning my father brought a new game-toy for my brother.:)

(thanks to me for that okay. he he)

i always quarrel with my family member.

my sisters,my brother,my mother and my father.

to be honest we never say apologize to each other after the fight.

like,today we fight but the next morning we are laughing together again.

there's no need to say sorry.

and that's what family is. 

this video remind me of my father.

my father has the loudest snore in our family.

loud enough to make you feel so annoyed sometimes. 

now, i live miles away from my father and it makes me realize that even with his imperfections i still don't want to miss a moment with him. 

:)

XOXO,

l i l i e  s. j o h n